update on my mom

 
talkgirl7
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update on my mom

[Post New]by talkgirl7 on Jul 20, 09 1:36 PM
my mom went to the doctors today it has been 6 weeks since she fell and broke her arm and now they have to do surgey on her arm they said her bone was coloasping and her and i both said i dont know why they just didnt do the surgey on her arm when they said they were going to do it so now she will be off work even longer...

and then i got some more bad news today our land lady she cant afford the appartment building and now the appartment building is going to go into forcloser and now we will probaly have to move again and where are we going to find some where to live when my mom cant work im trying to stay calm with everything but in my mind im screaming lol...

my mom has to get surgey on her arm on august 3rd so can you please keep her in your thoughts and parayers that every thing will be fine thank you all so much

 
MrsSkippy
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[Post New]by MrsSkippy on Jul 20, 09 1:41 PM
{{{{Hugs}}}} talkgirl7. I'm keeping both of you in my prayers.

 
angelfishp
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[Post New]by angelfishp on Jul 20, 09 1:44 PM
I am keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers

 
BinLA
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[Post New]by BinLA on Jul 20, 09 1:46 PM
When it rains, it pours, doesn't it? I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this. One thing to keep in mind is that foreclosure isn't immediately, so you have a little time. I think I read something about tenants of foreclosed homes, that there's some kind of government program for assistance, but I don't know if it applies to apartment dwellers. You might want to do a little research about that.

Also, make sure your mom has filed for state disability now that she's going to be off work for more than 6 weeks.

 
ComputerCharm
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[Post New]by ComputerCharm on Jul 20, 09 1:50 PM
(((((Talkgirl and mom)))))......keep your chin up and if you ever need to talk or get more prayers let up know.

Charm

 
Rocknchick
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[Post New]by Rocknchick on Jul 20, 09 2:10 PM
Sending prayers and positive thoughts for you and your mom, Talkgirl

 
penrose47
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[Post New]by penrose47 on Jul 20, 09 3:54 PM
ALL MY PRAYERS TALKGIRL

Like one of the fishies said it takes a while....

PEN

 
Mojave_Rain
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[Post New]by Mojave_Rain on Jul 20, 09 4:05 PM
Take heart, we're all praying for you and your Mom both for her health and for your living situation, know that everything will work out properly

 
BONNIE51462
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[Post New]by BONNIE51462 on Jul 20, 09 4:23 PM
Talkgirl...take a minute and just breathe...I myself had a problem but the fishies here prayed and hoped...crossed everything lol but just take a second I know it's hard when you are pushed to the wall and you see no way out but just take a breath...It does help where are you?? Have you tried looking into the social services in your area???Also your Mom worked so yes check out the disability there...Do you go to church???If so there is another place to look..What about family...There are plenty of places to check into it's not so dark when you have a good support system..Just try and get a chance to stay calm...I know it can seem insurmountable...it can look downright bleak but you have your Mom and I'm sure the two of you will do it..We are all praying for you both..Just take a minute to look at your options...Good luck to both of you and I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers....

 
sam1950
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[Post New]by sam1950 on Jul 20, 09 4:28 PM
take it easy look around at your optionss and good luck to you both

will be thinking of you

 
kahlil101
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[Post New]by kahlil101 on Jul 20, 09 4:48 PM
Will be praying for you Talkgirl and Mom.

 
axogur
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[Post New]by axogur on Jul 20, 09 5:03 PM
Try to stay calm, of course there's the problem with your mother's health as well plus the forced moving;
something really will come up your way, though it might give you lots to do at the same time in the beginning, but try to stay calm and try to find people who could help
in different ways.

I myself also had a forced moving (should it be the same landlord ? LOL)
within 5 weeks I had to look/find/pack/move to an appt. half smaller than I had, so even had to get rid ( of furniture/items/etc.; I was also running like an idiot, but from unexpected side there came some help; o.k. I had to pay a little for a bunch of youngsters, guided/supervised by 'streetworkers', like they are called (they look after/care for: "in-streets-hanging-youngsters-to-prevent-them-doing-stupid-things ,
mainpoint they didn't steel!, Only made a big joke with/for me, which of course I didn't know and that went on during many days each evening at 10 PM: they had winded up one of my alarmclocks and I couldn't find right away in which movingbox it was as there were so many piled up (lol-lol) and some other big helpers for free.
Wish your mother and you all the best

 
GIs1stluv
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[Post New]by GIs1stluv on Jul 20, 09 5:08 PM
Positive thoughts and hopeful wishes for your mom

 
lagj
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[Post New]by lagj on Jul 20, 09 5:16 PM
You and your mom are in my prayers. (((((Talkgirl and Mom)))))

 
mmaiden42
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[Post New]by mmaiden42 on Jul 20, 09 5:25 PM
I will keep you and your mom in my prayers. I know it has to be hard for you, but keep your chin up. There are usually places that will help you if you ask, Get ahold of your local Department of Human Services. Sometimes they have a lot of info and services that may help you. Some Churches will help find a place for you to live and they sometimes also have volunteers that will help with moving all of your stuff. I wish you the best of luck. Don't give up hope.

 
TiggerAnn
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[Post New]by TiggerAnn on Jul 20, 09 7:50 PM
Hang in there. Tomorrow is going to be a better day!

Hope all goes well for your Mother.

 
Cyndo123
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[Post New]by Cyndo123 on Jul 20, 09 8:02 PM
TalkG ... you and I are friends... Geeze sweetie life will get us through every obstacle we face! ask Mark Martin.... ((((Hugs)))

 
hilyer25
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[Post New]by hilyer25 on Jul 20, 09 8:11 PM
(((((talkgirl)))) I'm so sorry. You and your Mom will be in my prayers. Maybe it will take a long time before you have to move, though. Foreclosures can take a long time, unless it's been going on for awhile and she just hasn't let anyone know. Hopefully you won't have to find a new place until your Mom has recovered. Huge hugs for you both!

 
bitojoy
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[Post New]by bitojoy on Jul 20, 09 9:59 PM
{{{{{{Talkgirl}}}}}}
Your Mum will be in my prayers for a successful recovery ! She will also be on several prayers lists both online and off !

Not only can foreclosures take a long time *but* my understanding is many of the bigger banks that take over the properties can no longer kick people out for 6+ months due to government funds helping *them*.
This may vary state to state ... but still and all - I wouldn't worry before its time to worry. Prayers will be added for your landlady to be able to keep her property also!

 
lilyr
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[Post New]by lilyr on Jul 20, 09 10:06 PM
{{{{TALKGIRL and MOM}}}} green for healing

I will be praying for you both.

 
 
 
 
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